How to be a real swinger

Swinging is a lot of fun, but it’s not always easy to find the right people for your lifestyle. Luckily, there are plenty of best websites for swingers out there that can help make your search much easier. In this article, we’re going to walk you through the steps of creating a profile and finding other swingers who will make sure you have an amazing time!

Find your people

The first step to becoming a real swinger is finding the right site. There are lots of sites out there that claim they’re for swingers, but only a few really allow you to meet people who are looking for the same thing as you. Once you’ve found your perfect match, it’s time to get down with them!

If this sounds like too much work, don’t worry: all of these things can be done in one night (or day). For example: if I’m feeling adventurous and want more than just sex from my partners–and let’s be honest here–who doesn’t? Then I would choose an online dating site that caters specifically toward those seeking dating opportunities outside their relationship status (ahem). If instead I’m just looking for some casual fun without any strings attached then maybe Tinder would do better than Matchmaking Services For Singles Who Have Been Diagnosed With Anxiety Disorder And Depression Syndrome And Are Looking For Someone To Go Out With On Friday Night Because They Don’t Want To Stay Home Alone Anymore But Don’t Want Their Friends To Know That They Are Actually Just Lonely And Need Someone Else Around Who Will Take Care Of Them While They Sit Around Eating Chocolate Cake Baked By Their Grandmothers Who Used To Work At A Bakery In Newark NJ Until She Died From Cancer In 2002 And Was Only 43 Years Old When She Passed Away Which Is Not Too Young At All Especially Considering That Most People Live Longer Than 60 Years Anyway So Shouldn’T We Be Celebrating Her Life Instead Of MournIng Over Her Death?

Create your profile

Now that you have decided to join the swinging community, it’s time to create your profile.

  • Be honest and open. Don’t lie about your age or weight, because someone will find out eventually! Also, don’t worry about being too honest: there are no rules against having kinks or fetishes–in fact, many people who visit swinger sites come looking specifically for those things!
  • Be creative with how you present yourself online; this is an opportunity for you and/or your partner(s) to really show off who they are as individuals through their choice of words and photos. Include some images from real life (not just selfies), along with descriptions about yourself and what kind of playmates would be compatible with yours–and don’t forget that other members might want similar things from their own profiles so feel free give them ideas too! You can also include lists like “I’m not interested in people under x age” or “This isn’t my first rodeo.” If necessary/possible I recommend using filters like these when searching around; this way everyone knows what type person may work best for them right away instead wasting time messaging strangers who aren’t interested at all.”

Choose your proper swinger site

When choosing a swinger site, you should consider the number of users and members, as well as how many active users there are. You should also look at what other members say about the site.

If you’re new to swinging and have never been on a swinger website before, it’s best to start out with one that has a good reputation and lots of reviews from previous members.

Chat with other swingers

There are two types of chat rooms on swinger sites: public and private. The public chat room is for everyone to use, so you can talk with other swingers who are online at the same time as you. This is a great way to learn more about what other people’s experiences have been like and get tips on how to make your own experience as fun as possible. You might even find some friends who live near each other!

Private chats are just like they sound–they’re private conversations between two members only. Some people prefer these because they provide an opportunity to get to know someone before meeting them in person; others feel they give too much power over communication back over into the hands of the person doing all the talking (which makes sense). But either way, if everyone involved wants one then go ahead!

Swingers have a very specific set of rules and guidelines, so be sure you’re on a site that will help you find the right playmates.

Swingers have a very specific set of rules and guidelines, so be sure you’re on a site that will help you find the right playmates. Here are some examples of swinger sites:


We hope that this article has helped you understand the ins and outs of being a swinger. Swingers are a very specific group of people, and they have a very specific set of rules and guidelines–but once you know them, it’s easy to find your way in. We wish you luck on your journey!